We have compiled what the fathers told about the changes in their lives after becoming a father. From the moment your spouse becomes pregnant, we list the emotions that await you and the decisions you will make.
“I have good news for you, my love!”
Here’s the first time being daddy technically started. And the feeling of experiencing more than one emotion at the same time that comes when your spouse says you will be a father. Rejoice at a new mission that you don’t know yet, worry about “What will I do now”, the feeling of emptiness that comes from the knowledge that your life will not be the same as before… After the first shock, nine months of wondering who will look like part comes next. But know that you will love it no matter what it looks like.
First date with baby
During pregnancy, all the attention will be with the mother. If it’s the fatherhood talks going around all the time, just for you to feel not to stay out of it. Until your baby opens his eyes to the world, and you get him in your first arms. The initially mixed feelings and panic have returned. Blood alive!
Worrying about the future…
Now is the time to meet concepts and products that you never even wondered about, not even before. How many days does a pack of diapers go? What is paraben? Does this bottle have a glass one? Of course, these are the beginning. While your little one hasn’t learned to gas himself, you’ll start to think about school expenses, or even how many days are left until your retirement.
3 important concepts
Responsibility, patience and love… These three concepts are the hardest test you will give after becoming a father. You will feel the word patience in your marrow, from the mental changes that start during your spouse’s pregnancy to your baby who does not sleep at night, you will see that the responsibility includes changing the baby’s diaper and you will struggle to define love.
“Courage” is loading
After you become a father, all the emotions that surround you will crust and crack over time and a brand new man will emerge from you. This transformation, which comes from the thought of “Should we bring a child into this world?” to the idea of ”I can challenge the whole world”, will probably come with the first touch of those tiny hands on your cheek. So there is no war that you cannot win anymore. Maybe it’s the mood that makes fathers the greatest heroes of children, what do you think?
What about jealousy?
The new member of your family who is small by size but big by the influence may cause you to experience strange feelings in your relationship with your partner. You may start to see the woman who was your lover just a year ago as a “mother” completely or you may be strangely jealous of her relationship with your baby. Although this situation is temporary, do not say it out loud.
Your agenda will change
What is happening in the world, neither politics nor football. After you become a father, nothing will even come close to the items on your agenda such as “He said this today”, “Milk teeth have come out”, “He has grown so tall”. Not to mention, showing hundreds of photos or videos of your baby similar to each other until those around you pass out.
You’ll understand it when you become a father
And of course all aside, you will better understand the value of your own father what he did for you and experience a flood of emotions for him.